Sunday around 7am I let out the dog and opened a kitchen window. Saturday there had been wild thunderstorms that left this morning feeling scrubbed and fresh, fall air nipping at the last days of summer. I opened my laptop at the kitchen table and as it loaded I poured myself a cup of coffee. Then, coffee in hand, I opened Facebook.
Lots of people will groan at that. Couldn’t I (shouldn’t I) be doing something more productive with my time? I could justify that it’s Sunday morning, my time to relax any way I choose, but Facebook is one of the first things I open on my computer everyday.
I think Facebook is wonderful. This is what it gave me Sunday morning:
My Facebook friend Jan announced the birth of her new granddaughter. There were wonderful pictures of Jan and the baby. I refer to Jan as a Facebook friend because I have never met her in person, she lives in Arizona in a town I’d never heard of before I saw it written on her profile. We “met” through a Facebook fan page we both visit regularly. I was sincerely happy to know that a new life, cherished and loved, had entered the world.
Then I saw this picture.
That’s from the Great Ocean Road Tour outside Melbourne, Australia. The picture was posted by my friend Peggy. I know Peggy in person, but she has been living in Australia since last December and Facebook has allowed me to share in her adventure.
Then I saw and clicked the link to an article about a woman I know, Kim McLeod, who has created a conference for mothers and adolescent daughters to strengthen their relationship as they head into the teen years. Kim is passionate about her work, so I was happy to use Facebook to further awareness about her conference, so I shared the link. I’ll share it again now.
Then I reposted this, because it made me laugh and I wanted to make my friends laugh.
These cards pop-up all over the web, but in this instance it was posted by a woman I went to high school with. Back then (class of 1978!) we knew each other kinda/sorta but weren’t really in the same crowd, but through the alchemy of Facebook we’ve connected again. I have several high school friends on Facebook. We didn’t really know each other in the past (we barely knew ourselves back then) and I can’t say I know them that well now, but they lend a certain grounding effect to my life. I like knowing how people are doing, being inspired by their accomplishments, cheering for them when they have a challenge. Facebook is the perfect tonic for the sappy hearted like myself.
I won’t recount every post I read, but in 20 minutes I’d seen the good stuff of life. And best of all, it wasn’t just out there, separate from me. All these people, even if only in a small, small way, are part of my life. And I’m grateful for that.
Kim Reynolds